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A few weeks ago, I turned the ripe old age of 60! Yes, thank you, thank you. What it means is that I have stayed awake for a long time – but I’m still (maybe) not yet woke.
My health over those 60 years has been reasonably good. Had the odd broken bone, a few dislocated joints – but hey, farming was a tough profession on the body. Had one proper bout of flu, as an adult, which was epic, but I would say on the whole my physical health has been pretty good.
My mental health has been a little more erratic, often due to fatigue, and working too much. On reflection this was due to needing to be busy and not facing up to some difficult situations in my life. I think my work ethic was motivated more by negative thoughts than positive ones and working kept me numb enough to get by.
This only spilled over into depression once (that I am aware of) when I was so stretched looking after three farms, fulfilling board of trustees’ duties, and trying to be a father. The doctor put me on antidepressants as a fix, which I started, only to find it evaporated my libido. At that point I thought shit, now I am sick, so I stopped taking the medication and sorted my workload and attitude out. The body is an amazing thing to witness, when given the chance to heal itself.
I heard an excellent quote a year or so ago, “Getting old ain’t for sissies.” Hell yes. Little did I know.
Twelve months ago, the body was giving me lots of signals that some serious maintenance was overdue. The bad hip I had put up with for 20 years was slowly getting more painful and stiff. My wife Kate kept saying, ‘get it replaced, as you will wear out your good hip’. Yeah, yeah, whatever.
My heart also had this annoying habit every month of going into a spasm, officially called atrial fibrillation – this can cause strokes and other nasty stuff. I took a deep breath and thought if I want to have a half-decent, productive and active life from now on, I need to deal with these two conditions.
The plan was to get the heart reset with a surgical procedure, before getting the arthritic hip replaced three months later. Boom – easy as. The heart surgery went really well. Thirty hours in a Wellington hospital, a little discomfort, but in the scheme of things it was a walk in the park.
I was like, “next”!
That would be the x-rays for the hip. I lay on the table and naively said, “you only need to x-ray the right hip.” The nurse said, “well, while you are here, let’s just do both.” So, off I go to see my new GP (who doesn’t know me at this stage). I pompously announce, “I need surgery on my right hip which is arthritic.” This new GP is an English woman with that wonderful English humour, who promptly laughs at me and informs me both hips have severe arthritis. I thought she had it wrong! I was in denial, and thought, “something is not right here!”
That was December 14th, 2018. One week later I was walking along a golf course and my good hip ‘seizes’ up. No immediate pain, but I can’t move and have to be put in a cart to get back to the club house.
To say my best-made plans turned to shite would be an understatement. As it transpires, I have now had two hip replacements, a frozen shoulder worked on with physio and acupuncture for six months and not yet resolved (with surgery possible), and Dupuytrens in both hands rectified with a series of injections.
All in all, I think I have had about 150+ needles in my body in twelve months and I’m getting a little sensitive. Ouch!!
So, what have I learned from all of this?
My year highlighted the gap between those that can afford health insurance and those who can’t. Southern Cross has invested about $120,000 into my body, allowing me to chose when I have surgery. In the public system the surgeons and nurses (we love nurses) are just as good, but I wonder where I would be up to in getting through my list?
Now I’m an old bugger, and if you’re reading this and you’re not, here’s my ponderings for you:
NB: these off-the-cuff thoughts of mine do not constitute or substitute for a real chat with your health professional.
As I write this, I just got clearance to drive again after surgery, and having that independence back is just wonderful (and the staff in the office think so too!). Yes, I have an unresolved frozen shoulder issue, but we have a plan for that.
Now to rest-up in earnest over the New Year and look forward to 2020 and beyond. Hope you’re all planning to do the same.
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