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BAM! And it hits you sideways – that sudden realisation that you have the power to change what’s happening by changing something in yourself. Feels awesome, then feels embarrassing (shouldn’t I have worked that out ages ago?), then feels motivating and surprise, surprise – actually works! That’s the experience of coaching.
The International Coaching Federation (ICF) defines the work that professional coaches do like this:
When I returned to Aotearoa, nearly 5 years ago now, I was amazed (and frustrated) by the number of people calling themselves executive coaches who were actually consulting or giving business advice and had no coach-specific training. I don’t have a problem with business advisors or consultants (far from it as I also used to do that work myself), but coaching is different. It’s not about telling people what to do, it’s about exploring, co-creating and deepening understanding so people can gain clarity about their own unique situations.
In New Zealand it felt like there was a lot of work to do to get coaching recognised as a particular range of interventions with a particular set of skills. There are some fabulous coaches across New Zealand, but it took me time to find them and I know what I’m looking for – which got me thinking – how on earth does a potential client figure all this out?
So, here’s some tips that I’ve shamelessly lifted from our ICF website – so the links are still intact:
Now that might seem like a lot to do – but even if you take a few of these questions, and talk to two coaches you will get a sense of whether you think the coach is a good fit for you. A professional coach is an investment, don’t just throw your money at the nearest or cheapest, think about what’s important to you.
Professional coaches will usually take a ‘Chemistry Meeting’ if you ask for one. This is a free ‘let’s see if we fit’ meeting which helps both parties to ascertain whether they can work well together. And don’t be afraid to ask for what you need – this will enable the coach to serve you well and to guide you to another coach if the fit doesn’t seem right.
The videos on the ICF website show some great examples of what coaching is about.
There are a number of Professional Coaching bodies around the world, and when I lived in the UK I belonged to the EMCC, here in New Zealand I’ve affiliated with the ICF as it felt more relevant. I’m a passionate believer and supporter of professional bodies, they hold us to a code of ethics and help us hold ourselves to high standards of practice. I’m not saying there aren’t some awesome coaches out there who don’t have qualifications and credentials, but ask the same questions of them… you will still get a sense of whether they are right for you.
In my time as a Collective Intelligence facilitator I also had the chance to directly coach some members during team meetings (with of course their express permission and the groups’ agreement for going into a particularly deep dive into personal space). Using a systemic team coaching approach, we asked for the ‘client’ to watch as we built a living map of their focus issue using the team members as representatives.
In one very powerful example, a team member explored an issue that she had never disclosed before. All of the team were affected in some way and the extraordinary power of this type of work was brought to the groups’ awareness:
BAM!!
What is extraordinary about Collective Intelligence members is their willingness to give things a go, even when it’s far, far outside their comfort zone. The facilitators and the group members are always pushing each other to go further, to explore and challenge each other’s thinking and behaviour.
In the coaching context one of my clients put it this way, “You make me get to the crux of shit”. And of course that’s what Collective Intelligence is all about too!
Kathy Tracey is a Master Credentialed Coach, the highest level awarded by the International Coaching Federation. She is the President Elect for the Australasian ICF Chapter and begins her term as President in September this year.
Kathy runs a coach training business specialising in systemic coaching, and a coaching practice which, as of September, will include bespoke business coaching retreats for couples who run their own businesses. The retreat is currently being constructed in Castlepoint.
Kathy has worked with Collective Intelligence groups since 2017 and now offers Collective Intelligence members individual and team coaching.
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